IMPORTANT CONSIDERATIONS BEFORE FILING FOR DIVORCE

Dena Silliman Nielson, J.D.
3 min readMar 6, 2023
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Whether to file for divorce is a difficult decision that many couples have to make. While it may seem like the best option at the time, it’s important to consider the potential downsides before making a final decision. Here are some of the important issues to consider before filing for divorce:

1. Financial Consequences

Divorce can be a costly process. Legal fees, court costs, experts, and other expenses can add up quickly. Divorce can also result in a significant reduction in income for both parties, especially if one spouse was the primary breadwinner. Property division and child support payments can also have a significant impact on finances.

2. Emotional Toll

Divorce is a highly emotional process that can take a toll on both parties, as well as any children involved. It can lead to feelings of sadness, anger, and anxiety. It can also impact mental health, leading to depression and other conditions. Divorce can be especially difficult if there are children involved, as they may struggle to understand the situation, and their mental health can suffer as well.

3. Impact on Children

Divorce can have a significant impact on children. It can lead to feelings of confusion, sadness, and anger. Children may blame themselves for the…

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Dena Silliman Nielson, J.D.

Retired Family Law Attorney, author, divorce consultant, speaker on all things divorce and co-parenting, and soon-to-be podcaster.